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Honest self-checks

A gentle way to recognise what you're carrying.

These are recognition tools, not diagnoses. You cannot fail them, and nothing you tap is stored or shared. They simply help you notice a pattern, in plain words, with a warm read of what it often means.

The short version

This check is about "the responsible one," the eldest-daughter and good-child pattern many Indians grow up inside. Answer eight questions honestly. At the end you will get a gentle read, and a next step if you want one. It takes about two minutes.

Is this "the responsible one" in you?

Answer for how things usually are, not just today.

I'm the one everyone comes to when something goes wrong.
Rest makes me feel guilty, like I'm forgetting something.
I confuse being needed with being loved.
I was 'mature for my age' long before I should have had to be.
I find it hard to ask for help, even when I'm drowning.
I manage other people's feelings before I notice my own.
Saying no to my parents feels almost physically difficult.
I'm seen as the strong one, and I fall apart quietly at 2am.

Answer all eight to continue. Nothing is saved.

More self-checks

Other gentle places to start.

Each one is a recognition tool, written in plain Indian-English, never a clinical verdict.

Is my "fine" actually burnout?

For the tiredness that sleep does not fix, and the guilt that comes with rest.

Coming soon

What's my attachment style?

Why you might pick the same person every time, or stay when you want to leave.

Coming soon

Am I numbing, or resting?

The difference between a nervous system exhaling and one that has gone quiet.

Coming soon
When you're ready

Recognising it is the first step. The next one can be a conversation.